I know you were trying to help me, figure it out for me and solve my problem. But what I really needed was you to listen to me and my silly talk. I need your help, but that what you offer I get it as a depressing talk!
Don't ever start by saying that I haven't done my job well. Don't assume that I don't know what my work is. You think you know all the facts, all that you need to judge me and assume correctly, but you're wrong! So wrong actually and you've hurt me by that way! And you know it!! So don't play the victim part now and say that my response was tough! In fact I'm the victim here and you should apologize!
This's just typical; a cliche!